It is not easy to introduce a new partner to your child especially if your children are used to the fact that you are single. Usually, children need time to adjust and accept that the relationship you had with their other biological parent is over and done with. But if the ending of the previous relationship was because you’ve met the other party, you will undeniably need to work harder to assure the child that your new partner is not the cause of the breakdown.

Remember that it is important to keep the first meeting between your child and your new partner low-key. Try to introduce the, when you are playing bowling or having picnic at the park. After that, the next meeting should be built according to your child’s pace.

There are many negative myths about bad relationship with the child and their stepmothers or stepfathers; in reality though, most children just want their parents to become happy. But remember that while they have the best intention in mind, they also have a fragile emotional state.

At first, they may struggle with the impact the new relationship may bring to the family. In addition, if they have been with you for a while, they may be used to having you all to themselves. The feelings of jealousy are natural so try to be sensitive to your child’s feelings.